Missing girls found living with foreign boyfriends Nepalese faces charge

Sisters were found living with a Nepali believed to be one of the girls' boyfriend

Safe and sound: Poh Fong (left) and Poh Choo being escorted to south Klang police headquarters. 

KLANG: Two teenage girls who were reported missing last Wednesday have been found.

Police found Chen Poh Choo, 15, and her sister Poh Fong, 13, at about 2pm in Taman Sentosa, living with a Nepali believed to be the boyfriend of one of the girls.

South Klang OCPD Asst Comm Mohamed Mat Yusop said the girls had been sent to hospital to receive medical attention. “It is not known yet why the girls left their home.

“We have yet to investigate the foreigner. Let the police investigate and avoid listening to hearsay,” he said, adding that the girls had records of skipping school in the past.

The girls, who were present at the news conference, shook their head in refusal when ACP Mohamed asked if they wanted to go home.

He added that the girls would either be spending the night at the hospital or at a shelter. Reporters were barred from speaking to the girls.

Poh Choo and Poh Fong were reported missing at midnight on Thursday after they were last seen at noon on Wednesday before they walked to school from their house in Pandamaran Jaya.

Outside the station, the girls' father, Chen Fook Chai, said he had yet to see his daughters.

“The police told me my daughters have been found but I have not met them,” he said.

He admitted that his girls had disciplinary problems in the past but denied abusing them.

“They skipped school and had some disciplinary issues but nothing serious,” Chen said.

According to a source, the Nepali was detained by the police at 5pm yesterday.

The man, in his 20s, was believed to be living alone at a shoplot in Taman Sentosa for the past few months. His job is, however, unknown.

- By A. Ruban/The Star

Nepalese may face rape charge

KLANG: A 32-year-old Nepalese man who allegedly had sex with one of the sisters reported missing is being investigated for statutory rape.

South Klang OCPD Asst Comm Mohamed Mat Yusop said medical examinations revealed signs of penetration on the older sister.

“We believe the 15-year-old girl had sex within the time she disappeared last Thurs­day,” he told reporters here yesterday.

“We have since arrested the man, believed to be her boyfriend”.

ACP Mohamed said he was a general worker at a shopping outlet in Klang and would be remanded for two weeks.

He will be investigated under the Immigrations Act and for statutory rape.

Police found the missing girls at the Nepalese’s house in Taman Sentosa here at 2pm on Monday following a tip-off.

ACP Mohamed said investigations revealed that the girls had run away to be with their boyfriends.

When contacted, the girls’ father said they were getting impatient and wanted to see their daughters.

“I just want to know when I can see them again,” he said. “My wife waited at the hospital until 1am (on Monday) to meet them.”

Despite the latest revelations, he did not believe that they ran away to stay with their boyfriends, and wanted to know where they went.

In a separate case, ACP Mohamed said a gang of four men broke into the house of a 30-year-old IT officer in Bukit Jati and robbed the family of four at knife point.

“The gang members wore masks, gloves and had machetes,” he said, adding that they gained entry by cutting through the kitchen grille at 3.45am on Monday.

They made off with RM2,000 cash, RM7,000 worth of jewellery, four mobile phones, three watches and one laptop, he said.

“At 3.45pm the same day, a team of policemen arrested an Indonesian man in front of a money changer in Taman Sri Andalas. He is suspected to be part of the gang,” he said.

Police are looking for the other three men and believe they are responsible for seven other robberies in Banting and Klang.

By SHAUN HO shaunh@thestar.com.my

How to save when you’re broke?

Saving money is not impossible when you're in financial dire straits

SAVING money can be a tall order for a lot of people but it becomes near impossible when you're broke or financially challenged. Still, it's not a position you can't come out of.

Here are some simple steps to follow to help you save despite being broke.

Set up a budget plan

If you're broke and trying to save money, than it's best to come up with a budget plan, says Standard Financial Planner Sdn Bhd's Jeremy Tan.

“If you're broke, then you need to evaluate what you're doing wrong.

“Have a budget plan. Look at what assets you have? “Perhaps you could try liquidating some.

“But even before you're broke, you should have contingency or emergency funds,” he tells StarBizWeek.

Keep working

MyFP Services Sdn Bhd managing director Robert Foo believes that if a person is broke, it's imperative for one to continue working or seek a new form of employment - as soon as possible.

“If you have a job, then you should continue working.The experience that you already have would be invaluable.

And what happens if you've lost your job or unemployed? All is not lost, says Foo.

“Don't feel hopeless. You've got skills and should be able to have contacts that can help you find a new job.

“If you have a job and you feel it's unstable or that you might lose it, then you should ensure that your resume is with headhunters, to ensure your income position remains as stable as possible.”

Tan also points out that age can be a factor. “Of course if you're young, you'll be able to take on multi-tasking jobs. If you're old, then you might need to go easy on the job load,” he says.

Compare prices

Self-confessed shopaholic PS Tan says that when she's “a little bit behind on her credit card payments” and needs to cut down on her spending, she decides to be a little bit more “choosy” with her shopping.

“When I know I need to cut down on my spending, I go several hypermarts or supermarkets and compare prices first before eventually purchasing.

“Also, if I have been using items that were expensive, I just choose to buy ones that are cheaper.
Be open to new brands and products,” she says.

Eliminate costs

While trying to save, also try to rid yourself of whatever debts you have.

“If you're broke, ask yourself if you have debts or not? Find out how you can restructure them,” says Tan.

Tan meanwhile says now would also be a good time to evaluate and consider eliminating the unnecessary financial obligations that one can do without.

“If you have a gym membership for a gym that you've not been going to for a long time, or perhaps a year's subscription for a book or magazine you've been hardly reading, just cut it off.”

Live within your means

If you're broke, than you're going to need to need to change your lifestyle - immediately!

“If you're broke, then you're not going to be able to sustain the lifestyle you've been living.

“The fastest way to solve this is to cut down on your expenses,” says Foo.

He reiterates that one could find a part time job or even a second one to curb debts quickly.

Eric Lee (not his real name), a marketing executive who was laid off for six months, says he was forced to cut down on his lavish lifestyle when he had difficulty finding a job.

“I had to do a lot of things differently.

“My car got repossessed and I had to move out from where I was staying because I couldn't afford the rent.

“I moved in with my parents and also had to rely on public transport to go where ever I needed to, especially for job interviews.

“If I was lucky, sometimes I could drive my parents' cars.

“When I did get a job, I initially still had to live within my means as I was still unable to stand on my own feet. This meant taking home-cooked meals to work.

“Initially, I also had to use t-shirts from friends as I couldn't afford new ones.”

By EUGENE MAHALINGAM
eugenicz@thestar.com.

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Why and how to complain?

Done right, complaints help us to improve and accommodate

I AM not the type who usually kicks up a fuss about, say, service at a restaurant. It has to be pretty bad before I show my displeasure.

But really, I am not sure that it's quite the right way to be.

If someone is doing something wrong, is it wrong to complain? Certainly not, especially if the intention is not just to vent but also to let the person know that he is doing something wrong.

You may have heard the quote “The biggest room in the world is the room for improvement.” I don't know who said it and I could not verify it on the Net. But that quote strikes a wonderful chord that resonates within.

A complaint properly made helps to improve and that is its greatest strength. But its full benefit depends on why and how the complaint is made, and, importantly too, the spirit in which it is received.

But first, a complaint has to be genuine, not just to take the mickey out of someone whom you don't like for whatever reason. It has to be rooted in a genuine dissatisfaction.

And then it has to be made to the right person - someone who can actually do something about it. And service providers need to ensure that there are proper channels for people to make their complaints and to receive feedback.

We receive our fair share of complaints too. Over the year past, there have been many e-mails sent in response to my columns. Our analysis shows the complaints were centred around three main areas yes, crime and associated with it is corruption. The third area dear to the heart of all Malaysians is of course education.

Let's take the crime rate, and the incessant complaint about the incidence of crime and how it could not have come down despite the statistics showing it has. Take it from me if you make a report about a crime it is recorded. Get a copy of the report and the report number.

If any police officer refuses a report, take his name and number down and tell.

At the risk of criticism and disbelief, let me say that SMS feedback and surveys done after the public leaves police stations show 88.7% of those who had dealings with the police in Selangor were very satisfied while 11.1% were satisfied which leaves a miniscule 0.2% less than satisfied. That's out of nearly 117,000 responses.

Now, if the public was really dissatisfied, all they have to do is to say so in their SMS. The number to send it to is 15888. Just quote the report number. This service will be extended to the rest of the country soon.

Here's another piece of information: Despite all the anecdotal complaints that police do not take down reports, we have not received even one single complaint against any officer who has refused to take a report. If that's happened to you, e-mail me valid details and I promise action.

On corruption, it is important to remember that you can make a direct report with full details to the Malaysian Anti-Corruption Commission (MACC). Report officials who ask for bribes.

If your complaint is genuine and can be established, you will also enjoy immunity under the Whistleblower Protection Act 2010. But don't go public with your information you must go directly to MACC or the relevant enforcement agency for crimes other than corruption.

On education, we need to recognise that this is a generational problem.

Changes don't take place overnight but gradually. We are doing things, as I have explained in previous columns. There is also plenty of information on this on our website.

The next stage is the finalisation and implementation of the Education Blueprint by the Education Ministry.

The public should also be aware that there is Public Complaints Bureau where complaints about the civil service and the government can be made.

But there is a steady decline here from 14,700 in 2010 to 13,366 in 2011 and 12,582 last year. I hope that decline is not due to rising apathy.

Apathy is the forerunner to hopelessness and I truly believe there is much, yes, room for improvement.

Don't give up, do let the complaints roll in but bear in mind a couple of things.

Be sure they are as specific as you can possibly make it and try to give an indication of the root cause of the problem you encountered instead of just the symptoms.

That will help the service provider rectify it. By all means complain we welcome complaints and the opportunity to do something about them. But have a heart simply because we do too.

There are many of us on this side who want change for the better as much as you do and will walk the extra mile together with you for it.

Transformation Unplugged - By Idris Jala

Datuk Seri Idris Jala is CEO of Pemandu, the Performance Management and Delivery Unit, and Minister in the Prime Minister's Department. Fair and reasonable comments are most welcome at idrisjala@pemandu.gov.my